ive read this one blog of someone i know who doesnt believe in friendship, give and take.

she believes in taking advantage of the other, and let it be if people wanna take advantage of her so long as the other person wont bother her.

she believes friend is a nuisance. kena jaga hati dia la. do this and that to make a friend happy, and sacrifice for friend. for her semua ni menyusahkan.

owh. im not condemning her. and here am not judging her. let her be with what she thinks.

just wanna say my stand.

i never think the way she thinks, but it doesnt make me a better person than her pon.

for me, i lost nothing in giving and loving others. there’s nothing difficult to do something for people u love, ie; ur friends. yeah, maybe your friend wont do as much as u do for her, but that’s not important. helping people and making people happy.. u dapat pahala, kan?

bukan ke ade satu ayat Quran tu.. “tak beriman seseorang tu if dia tak sayang saudara-saudaranya” .

correct me if im wrong. im really not good at this kind of thing. tapi, i interpret it as Allah pon mahu kita saling sayang-menyayangi. lebih2 lagi, Allah sendiri Maha Pengasih dan Maha Penyayang.

Tidak kah these facts cukup untuk encourage kita jadi lebih penyayang? Allah yang Maha Berkuasa sangat sayang umatNya. Tapi, kenapa kita yang lemah dan hina ni taknak sayang sesama sendiri?

if kita selfish and also tak kisah orang lain selfish and buat suka hati kita, siapa yang rugi? kita jugak yang rugi,kan?