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salam…
hye everybody! im so sorry for not updating this blog for months! huhu. i cant believe i havent been blogging these few months and there were a lot of things that happened. so many things!
to conclude, i have graduated medical school and am going to start being a government servant by tomorow. yep! tomorrow.
i have a cocktail of feelings in my heart, and thousands of butterflies in my tummy. haha. can u imagine wut kind of feelings im having right now?
whatever it is, i am praying to Allah, that He will make me a caring and competent doctor. Wish that i will be better and better. wish that i will always remember to improve myself and do the best.
insyaAllah, i will be updating again. see u guys, and have a good day, okay!
love,
Dr. Sajidah Yusrina Zaimi
1 comment October 19, 2009
ONE NOTHING
what will u do when u feel sad, mad or happy?
hmm.. u might share it with ur family, friends or ur partner.
but maybe there are certain things that u wont share
certain things u may think there’s no use of letting people know
coz it wont make a difference
yea…
there is always this ONE thing i wont share
i dont know
its not like i really wont share
maybe i just prefer to keep it to myself
or maybe i still could not find the comfort after sharing this ONE thing
people wont understand
and even if i let them know
still there’s no use
coz that ONE thing cannot be brought back
and NOTHING could replace it
i guess i just have to live with this
Add comment July 15, 2009
ME~~
everytime im writing my blog, im sure i should actually be doing something else at the moment. for now, i think i should be lying on my bed, golek2 while waiting for azan maghrib, solat then go for my on call.
but i am stuck here. my fingers gatal nak menaip. 
i was thinking about friends
that day, one of my bestfriends asked me in YM
“so, am i still an important person for u?”
or, something sound like that la. cant really remember exactly what was it.
i was like, kinda pissed out.
haha
then, i actually kinda scolded her.
“how dare u think like that?!!”
knowing her, i know she was emo.
em. i dont want to answer that. she herself knows it.
by the way, i was thinking of sending a mail, or an e-card to her.
but, tak gerak2 pon lagi
anyway, my dear friend
‘i seriously cant wait to see you and catch up things about u. its like ages since last time i saw u, n i know i’ve been missing a lot.
im waiting and planning so that we can pillow talk like how we used to do and nangis2 again n again’
n i wish we cud go back to ur room kat hostel ukm.
seriously, i miss that room too~~
hmmm
i hope, u wud be patient wif me. juz know that u r always my bestfriend, forever.
know that aku tak pernah sisihkan ko or sengaja2 taknak jumpa ko.
huhuhu
Add comment June 3, 2009
home~~
saya dah balik rumah!! yahooooo~~~
im so glad to be home. the love battery has been recharged.
a lil bit description of my home
my house was built dengan penuh kasih sayang by my late father, my mum and my brothers. everywhere, every part of my house has my dad’s fingerprints, has his sweats. its the one place where my dad wished to settle down with my beloved mum. the project architect, was my own abang yo and abg yan who was at that time still in uni and polytechnic. and there was also sentuhan my mum. =)
but, my dad tak sempat pon spent his old life in this house. coz God loves him more and taken him away from us. hmm.. i think its just physically.. coz my ayah is still here with me. can still feel the warm of his hug, can still hear his voice. he is here to stay in my heart to always teman me. forever…
Ernest once asked me where is the most romantic place in Raub?
i think i’ve told him.. its my own house! the home of love~~ =)
my sisters all are well aware, i will never have my wedding anywhere else other than my ayah’s house ;D
Add comment May 24, 2009
OBGYN
i was looking for law regarding abortion in malaysia coz its one of the issues of our case discussion. then, found this article. i think this is a good article from the star. good for layman and those teenagers who currently has out of wedlock pregnancy and thinking of abortion.
selamat membaca!!
The process of elimination
By LI EE KEE
ABORTION is defined as the expulsion of the conceptus – the product of conception at any point between fertilisation and birth – before the 24th week or the loss of a foetus weighing 500gm or less.
While abortion is traditionally seen as being induced, it can also be spontaneous. When a mother suffers a miscarriage, her situation is medically termed as an abortion but when dealing with patients, obstetricians and gynaecologists refer to it as a miscarriage.
Dr Nor Ashikin: Discuss with parents first.
Malaysia’s Abortion Act 1967 makes abortion or termination of pregnancy illegal. However, there are circumstances in which it is permissible. According to Pantai Medical Centre consultant obstetrician and gynaecologist (OBGYN) Dr Nor Ashikin Mokhtar, a pregnancy may be terminated if two registered medical practitioners are of the opinion, formed in good faith, that continuation of pregnancy will endanger the mother’s life.
“For instance, if she has breast cancer, cancer of the womb or renal failure. The mother’s safety and well-being is always priority because we have to take into consideration her family and existing children whom she has to care for. If the pregnancy were to continue, it would deprive them of a mother,” she says.
Termination of pregnancy is also advised to prevent grave permanent injury to the physical and mental health of the mother.
“Victims of rape or incest who become impregnated as a result are permitted to abort their child as long as there is a mental assessment from a psychiatrist that shows if the girl were to continue with her pregnancy, it would affect her psychologically, maybe causing her to lose her mind.
“Also, if the foetus is diagnosed with gross physical or mental abnormalities, like severe anencephaly where the baby is without a brain or skull, or part of it is missing, an abortion is advised. Because when the baby is born, it may only live for a few hours,” she adds.
Various techniques are employed in an abortion procedure, all of which depends on the stage of gestation. They can be grouped as either medical or surgical termination.
Medical termination is for pregnancies less than nine weeks old. This can be done with a Mifepristone tablet (a hormone tablet that blocks production of progesterone produced by the mother’s body to maintain early pregnancy). It causes bleeding, pain and expulsion of the conceptus within 24 to 48 hours. The tablet is not available in Malaysia.
“With oral medication, the abortion can be incomplete and has to be supplemented with a surgical technique like curettage. Again depending on the period of gestation, if it was between five to six weeks, it may come out with the menses. Between eight to nine weeks, the abortion may be incomplete and a surgical termination like D&C (dilatation and curettage) is needed.”
Under surgical termination, pregnancies less than 12 weeks old can be aborted via a suction curettage or D&C.
Beyond 12 weeks, the procedure for termination of pregnancy is more complex, where it’s almost like an induction of labour. All surgical termination procedures are done under general anaesthesia because the patient is relaxed, making the cervix easier to dilate.
Only doctors who have undergone obstetrics and gynaecology training/posting and have been taught or have performed these procedures, as part of their training supervised by the consultant OBGYN is capable of performing an abortion surgery safely.
Although abortion appears to be a minor operation – if done correctly, it takes only 10 to 15 minutes – Dr Nor Ashikin says that complications can and do occur anytime, anywhere.
“A life is at stake, particularly if you are talking about teenagers. It might affect them and their future pregnancies. The worse case scenario is death because if it is a forceful rather than gradual dilatation of the cervix, the girl can go into shock. Bear in mind that the cervix for those who have not delivered before is the size of a pinhole and you are trying to dilate it to about six to seven millimetres in diameter. If it is forceful dilatation or performed by someone untrained, it can tear the cervix where the immediate effect of which is haemorrhage. Uncontrolled and if the clinic is not properly equipped with blood supply for instance, the girl can die.”
Dr Nor Ashikin adds that in the long term, the muscles of the cervix will become weak or damaged.
“She must be prepared for the reality that she might not be able to conceive when she wants to because when there is tear or perforation resulting in continuous bleeding or severe infection, sometimes the uterus has to be removed. Should she get pregnant, she’ll find that she is likely to have recurrent spontaneous miscarriages or go into pre-term labour.”
An incomplete abortion without supplementation can lead to prolong bleeding, causing infection and damage to the ovaries, fallopian tubes, uterus and eventually resulting in infertility.
Uterine perforation can also take place because the uterus is usually anteverted (tilted forward) and instruments like the curette are stiff. As it is inserted, it might perforate the cervix or the wall of the uterus, which can result in a haemorrhage; perforate the bladder, which can cause urine leakage; or puncture any of the intestines, as they are located behind the uterus.
Between a D&C and suction curettage, the latter is safer because it uses a plastic tube, which is softer and thus able to follow the curve of the uterus. The degree of complication also depends on period of gestation with complications less likely to occur if the pregnancy is still in its early stages. And an abortion conducted legally in a hospital will have a smaller percentage of complications.
“These are the risks girls have to know they are taking and whether it’s worth taking them. Many think it’s an easy way out, as contraception. But I don’t think they actually realise what they are in for. They are desperate people who try to solve the problem with desperate measures,” says Dr Nor Ashikin.
“Youth must be more responsible, in the sense if they feel they are sexually active, they should understand the consequences and be prepared to take the risk, although I don’t think that is the right attitude. Abortion is not the answer and this is where sex education is important for teenagers.
“It’s hard making these comments but as a parent, I feel that moral and religious guidance are very important to guide our teenagers because of exposure to the media and Westernisation.
“Any girl who finds herself pregnant, should first go to her parents and discuss it with them. I know as teens, they’re at that rebellious stage where they think their parents are their worst enemy. But your parents are your best friends who always have your best interest at heart. If not, talk to counsellors who can understand and help you,” she advises.
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em, i wanna add up. for muslim, abortion is a sin. apatah lagi the act that lead to pregnancy itself is a super sinful act.
u maybe terlanjur, but once u get pregnant, do u want to commit another super sinful act by aborting the baby yang tak berdosa?
hmm… fikirkanlah.
Add comment April 29, 2009
for one more day~Mitch Albom~
for one more day is a novel i had recently finished reading. borrowed of course. from wan. Hehe
its not one of the romance novels that i always like to read, and it wasnt that thick.
how to say ek? it was about a son’s relationship with his mother. he had his ‘one more day’ with his dead mother after he comitted suicide which he survived. (so that i am able to read the story)
however, bad enuff i finished reading the book while i had my PMS.
as usual i do have depressive symptoms, and this time the book has triggered suicidal thought in me. i was crying and crying silently the other night after a visit to tanjung piai.
i had imagined myself drowned in the sea and wish that i had my ‘one more day’ with my dad.
okay. im stuck, so i’ll continue nex time.
anyway, i am allright.
2 comments April 20, 2009
Portfolio Forever
Portfolio forever? iye. feel like im forever doing portfolio. haihh.
its not easy to write a portfolio
still writing its not the hardest part
in history and currently, portfolio has done his evil job well. there are couples who break off juz because they ‘berebut’ portfolio case. four years of friendship is nothing compared to 20 pages portfolio which sometimes is never going to be discussed. people dont talk to each other anymore. some bitching around juz because someone else did what they actually did too. which is? curi case. then, the one with stolen case go curi other’s case. haha. some make rules, but never stick to the rule. some very good at reminding others, but also good at giving him/herself excuses to break the rule that they pledged upon. some hold and hold the cases. tried to find best case to write, taking other people’s chance of writing a case.
sound so stupid.
May God Bless You.
Some love this words
Yeah. May God bless You.
Alhamdulillah (Thank God) I had my case. Tho i dont know what am i going to write. Huhuh. But, InsyaAllah (God Willing), I’ll make this thru. May Allah show us the way.
=) (No Hard Feeling) ngeh ngeh ngeh
Add comment April 15, 2009
random~~
yosh. esok dah start exAM. hoho. selambe ade mase nak update blog.
alkisah la this morning while driving, dgr flyfm pagi show stopper. n the song for show stopper today was BSB I want it That Way. kan ke lagu ni glamer time kite muda2 dulu? haha. muda2 maksud aku bila umur kita masih awal belasan. sekarang kita dah dua puluhan. huhuh.
anyway, banyak kenangan yang datang.
korang ingat kenangan ape?
hmm…
memory of my dad.
i miss the most time ayah pick me up from school. sometimes i have to wait for ayah coz ayah nyer school lambat habis. sometimes, ayah will pick me up after my extra class. owh, this was in standard 6. then, ayah will ask me what i want to eat for that evening tea. so, of course!! roti yang panas2 lagi beli kat kilang kat tepi sungai rabit kat temerloh! best tau roti tu. kalah gardenia. n on the way back home, usually 15 minutes camtu, i will tell him stories. n ayah always show me what are the learning issues in my stories. haha. i was a terribly a manja girl, yet ayah always point out to me that although i am manja, i can be independent, n he always trust my judgement when of course i wasnt EMO. hoho.
sometimes, during the weekend after subuh prayer we will go to pasar together. (owh ni time i dah duk boarding school) so, he will ask me to choose what lauk i want to eat. haha. i made him believe i was always kebulur kat hostel. padahal, i gained 8kg in 1 year. (that was because i ate a lot of creamy biscuits, ok!) anyway, it was very hard for me to get use to food at the dining hall. haihh… nasib baik duk sbp 1 year and a half je. n nasib baik i got a lot of good friends to finish tins of biscuits =) (after lunch we usually lepak in our dorm which hav 20 girls n basically borak2 n habiskan tin(s) of biscuits. haha)
argh. how i miss my dad. how i miss my younger life. carefree. no conflict. no major exams like this. huhuh =(
Add comment February 10, 2009
Me Miss You
I just came back from raub on tuesday evening. went to practice skills at csu on wednesday and thursday morning. had URTI tho on wednesday which affected my mood so much. thursday morning was better, and Mr. Izmail had come for our date that afternoon =) feel much better!! thank you so much for coming, my dear…
emm.. i am already missing Mr. Izmail right now. guess he is missing me too. hehe ;D
yosh, has got to study and stop missing2 BF. haha. InsyaAllah… must pass exam! chayyok!!
1 comment January 30, 2009
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